There is a lot to consider when choosing funeral music. If you want a very traditional service, the church, crematorium or funeral director will suggest suitable music. Of course, there is nothing wrong with going down this route. However, more and more people choose music that honours the deceased or holds special significance to them. This doesn’t have to be your traditional funeral music fare.
Think About the Person and the Tone You Want to Set
The music you select will very much depend on the person being laid to rest. It also depends on the tone you want to set for the occasion. Do you want an upbeat mood or a more reflective service? Your answer shapes the music you select.
It’s always a good idea to consult other family members and people who knew the person well. Nobody should bear the burden of funeral planning alone. Someone else may well come up with suggestions you wouldn’t have thought of. If you’re struggling for inspiration, take a look at the person’s music library. This can give you real insight into the music that meant the most to them.
Listen to the lyrics of any potential choices carefully. Make sure you listen all the way through. Simply search the song online and you should find the lyrics with no problem at all.
Is There a ‘Right or Wrong’ Choice of Funeral Music?
No! Just as long as you keep good taste in mind, there is no right or wrong when it comes to funeral songs. Indeed, any genre or style is appropriate if it fits the mood you want to create. Some of the most unconventional choices can be the most poignant.
If there is a blueprint, it is this: honour your loved one first and foremost. If your selection is appropriate and thoughtful, you are on the right track.
Set the Tone for the Service
Think about the structure of the service as a whole. You will likely want a mix of music at different points. For example, something reflective for the cortège arrival, something meaningful mid-service, and something uplifting as the coffin leaves. Live music from Silk Street Jazz can cover all of these moments with care and professionalism.
Live Music vs Recorded Music at a Funeral
Recorded music has its place. However, live music adds a warmth and presence that a CD or playlist simply cannot replicate. A live performance responds to the room. It breathes with the emotion of the moment. Many families tell us that live music transformed the funeral into something truly special – a genuine celebration of life.
If you’d like to discuss live funeral music, contact Silk Street Jazz today. We are always happy to help.